Give, and gifts will be given to you” Homily for the 7th Sunday Ordinary Time
1 Sm 26:2, 7-9, 12-13, 22-23
Ps 103
1 Cor 15:45-49
Lk 6:27-38
The first reading is instructive. The second one is explanatory. The gospel is prescriptive. And the psalm offers consolation in our struggles.
The first reading instructs us on the difference between envy and jealousy, words that are oftentimes used interchangeably as if they were synonyms. They are not. The distinction is important.
Envy and jealousy are different emotions that drive different behaviors. The behaviors associated with jealousy are potentially more damaging, destructive, and dangerous than the behaviors characteristic of envy, though envy may deteriorate into violent jealousy.
Envy means coveting or wanting what someone else has. It can drive positive behaviors or disastrously maladaptive ones depending on the individual and what he or she envies. It can motivate someone to work harder, such as a student who envies a classmates grades and wants similar ones. Mulling over the envy may precipitate the realization that less time gaming and more studying may garner the same grades. However, envy that puts someone into financial distress because "I want the same Mercedes that my neighbor has" or "I gotta' have those granite counter tops like my sister's" is destructive.
Rather than wanting what the other has jealousy is fear, sometimes a delusional fear, that someone will take what I have from me. It can drive violent, destructive, and even murderous behavior. See Shakespeare for elaboration on the theme of jealousy.
The story of Saul and David is one of envy that deteriorated into homicidal jealousy on Saul's part. The tragedy began with Saul envying David's popularity and skill. Saul wanted people to sing his praises the way they sang David's. With time Saul became obsessed that David would usurp his power. That obsession drove his desire to kill David to prevent that from happening.
For his part, David was far from perfect. He was a man with serious flaws, who sunk to an abysmal low in his affair with Bathsheba. Like all of us he was a sinner: a sinner who was loved by God and forgiven when he repented. though the penalty for that sin was harsh. In this particular narrative, however, he showed himself to be virtuous when he refused to kill Saul despite the perfect opportunity to do so. "Today, though the Lord delivered you into my grasp, I would not harm the Lord's anointed.”
The politicians of both parties in this country could learn a lot from David. Envy, jealousy, and their associated behaviors are rampant in the halls of congress and state legislatures, and in just about any other venue one can name. While not rare in Rome that is a homily for another time.
Attempted murder is generally frowned upon in the halls of government, at least in the U.S. But character assassination, false accusations, backstabbing, and slander on social media are modern equivalents. Destroying another's reputation can be as lethal as a spear through the heart.
The second reading explains the reason for sinful human behavior in concise terms.
Adam, the first man, was from the earth and of the earth. Thus, Paul wrote: "As was the earthly one, so also are the earthly." We will be reminded of our earthly origins in eleven days as ashes are imposed on our foreheads with the formula, "Recall that thou art dust and to dust thou shalt return." No getting around that fact. We are from the earth and will return to it in due course.
Jesus, the new Adam, was of heaven. In his obedience, he atoned for the sin of Adam the original sin that we carry within us, the sin of arrogance and pride. Jesus the heavenly man is the image we desire. That image is within our grasp. As Paul wrote, "Just as we have borne the image of the earthly one, we shall also bear the image of the heavenly one."
But how can those of the earth bear the image of the one of heaven? The prescription is given in the gospel. It is not an easy-to-fill prescription, it is definitely not an over-the-counter remedy.
Love your enemies . . . .
Bless those who curse you . . .
Offer unstinting generosity . . .
Do to others as you would have them do unto you . . .
Some of the prescriptions are particularly challenging today:
Do not judge . . . .
Do not condemn . . .
Forgive and be forgiven . . .
The challenges are great and cannot be lived univocally. When is calling something sin judgmental and when is it necessary to call sin for what it is? When must we forgive? What is unforgiveable? When is it possible to restore trust? When must we remain forever untrusting of another?
Each of us must struggle to answer these questions for him or herself. The struggle is eased by the consolations in the psalm:
"He pardons all
your iniquities,
heals all your ills.
He redeems your life from destruction,
crowns you with kindness and compassion."
True, we must ask for that pardon and healing, ideally through the sacrament of confession. Ideally, it helps us to amend our lives. But . . . . pardon, redemption, and healing are there for the asking.
“Merciful and
gracious is the LORD,
slow to anger and abounding in kindness.
Not according to our sins does he deal with us,
nor does he requite us according to our crimes."
In response to this consolation we can only sing with the psalmist to acknowledge that "The Lord is kind and merciful."
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It hit forty in Boston today triggering thoughts of flowers, and spring, and being "Out In the Country" . . . . great song.
Fr. Jack, SJ, MD